When she's done...

when she's no longer believe in love..
when she's no longer have patience to wait..
when she can't even hope.
when she can't even dream.
when she stops wonder what's wrong with her..
when she stops to think that a guy will find her..
when she realize she has to be realistic.
when she promises to be survived.
in the world that she live in, nothing goes right with her dream about a man..
in the world that she breath in, cupid never let her know what love is..
she starts to think that she's just pathetic.
she starts to blame herself for totally nonsense things.
she was desperate.
she was a loser.
she will never be loved properly by a man.
she will never be happy being loved by a man.
but, she was never give up.
but, she was always think positive.
now, she's trying to be more realistic.
now, she's thankful enough for her life.
now, she's done waiting.
now, she's not willing to lay herself on any hope.

she's independent.
she's grateful.
she's passionate.
she's survived.

she IS.

and...
she will always be.

Preparing to be SURVIVED!

Humm,, i guess this year 2009 will be a hard year for me.. dunno why, since very last day of 2008 i already had this feeling.. it mostly comes from the pressure at my study.. it's what they call 'clinic'.. this semester i will get the pre-clinic thing. next semester: hello real life! xs those shitty bang bang things will make me go nuts! x0

...well, i don't know, cos i haven't experienced it by myself, but i know what would it be! i'm preparing myself now, to face the reality. there will be sooo much pressure! uh-oh!

will i be prepared?
will i be survived?
will somebody lighten me up and decreasing all this coming up pressures and tensions around me?

Oh well! i don't know, if u think i'm talking about a man for me, i'm not really talkin about that.. somehow i felt those silly hopes about finding the right guy is starting to fade away.. i don't think there are any capable man for me. i'm not lookin for soulmate anymore. i'm learning to control myself from hating any guy around me. i just don't think i believe in love anymore. no one can prove me that 'bullshit thing called love' is still exist in this pathetic world. now i'm preparing myself to be independent for the rest of my life. i don't wanna dream, i don't wanna hope, no. not for this bullshit. i'm just tryin to be more realistic.

W-H-A-T-E-V-E-R.

I just wanna go living my life without dreaming or that someday i will depend my life on some guy.
what?
u think i'm pathetic?
u think i'm short-minded?
crazy thoughts?

Well, w.h.a.t.e.v.e.r. i don't care what people say. i don't care what people think. i've been thinking about this soo many times. i'm done with all the hoping and dreaming thing. can't find what's wrong with me, can't find what's wrong with the world. i'm done with wondering 'why he can love her so well? why can't i get one too?' well, let's get realistic. if i'm not that type of lovable woman, then i'm okay with that. i'm used to live by myself, without a man that guiding my heart. i'm soo used to that. then, what would make it be any harder? :9

I didn't say that i'm ready enuff for living a life like this, well, since i'm used to hoping and dreamingg.. it's killin me sometimes when i remember that i will spending the rest of my life without the 'special guy' in my life. BUT, i really really HAVE TO be ready for this. so far, i didn't believe that there are somebody who's not perfect enough to be perfect for me. at least, not right now. or ever.

I'm starting to protecting my heart more and more. for now on, this heart is still fragile. but i know, i have to be strong. strong enuff to be independent for the following years.. sometimes i get sick of couple around me. especially the ones that seems won't last forever. i feel sorry for them. no offense, really. but i'm not interested. i'm still learning to control that crazy minds.
Sometimes i hate that i have soo much feelings in my heart and mind. i wanna be less care. about anything that related to feelings. i envy men. they use their feeling less. we, women, usually think with our heart, not our brain. sometimes i really hate that. if i were a boy, i won't have those crazy feelings that killin me time to time.

:D

jyahahaaa.. but i'm grateful enuff that i was born a woman. never regret any of those God's gift. it's just, normally, women will depend their life on men. and i don't think i could be that normal. sooo, i have to prepare myself better to be survived. yeah! yeah! wish me luck eeeeeevvvrybodyyy..... :)